He was placed on Ridalin last night and today marks day 1 of treatment. He will have weekly follow-up for a while with his pediatrician.
And really, if one more person asks me "Are you sure it isn't just him acting like a kid or being a boy??" I am going to kick them in the @#*&*$ teeth. Medicating was a very big decision for us and no, we didn't make it lightly. We are not idiots, yes, we have done our research, any other questions???
I hate the stigma with ADD and the misdiagnosing that has placed such a stigma on the kids that have it. His evaluation ruled out "Bad behavior", defiant disorders, depression, bipolar disorder, and learning disabilities. I feel confident that we are making a decision to help our child's future. I am sorry if "you" do not think he needs to take "one more medication" or have one more "thing wrong with him". I don't love it either but I am pretty hip on him being able to focus in class, follow instructions, do well in school and finally make some friends.
I am too damn emotional over this to deal with people's judgy-ness right now.
/vent.
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3 comments:
Do not let anyone make you feel bad about it. You are doing what is best for him. My mom was in a very similar situation with my brother. She avoided the meds too long because of the stigma, it was a big mistake. In the end she broke down and put him on Ritalin and it worked wonders. She regretted not doing it sooner. You are a great mom!!
Brandi ~ You are a wonderful mother and I know this wasn't a decision that you or Dante made lightly. It is hard to put a child on more medications, but you are doing what is in the best interest of Trey and your family. Love you tons!!
Do not believe them. My son is 17 and was on Ritalin from age 6 until 12 then was put on concerta which is another type of medication for ADD. We definitely notice a difference when he has not taken his medication. By taking his medication he is able to cope with what is going on and we are able to enjoy him even more. He is in his senior year of High School and is graduating with a A-B average. In grade school he was labeled a trouble maker because of his behaviour. He has come a long way. You are the one that deals with your son every day. You need to do what is best for you and your family. Hope this helps you.
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